Category: Thought

Learning to Love

The most natural desire we human beings have, is to feel needed and loved. So we do whatever we can to win that love from others. Sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn’t. To keep the cycle going, we do our…

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How to Set Yourself Free of Your Insecurities

If you browse through this blog or watch my YouTube videos, you may notice that a lot of what I talk about is often (usually?) the opposite of what you see elsewhere. In fact, my teachings often go against societal norms…

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Why is it so Difficult to Agree to Disagree?

Our different thoughts and belief systems create our own distinct reality that looks to us as just the way things are. Yet, we can only see things from our own reality, which is usually very different from everyone else’s.

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Don’t Give it a Second Thought

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. This post also has a corresponding video here.] This week I want to share with you some recent…

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One Truth: We Live in the Feeling of Thought in the Moment

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s also a corresponding video.] If you’ve read any of my blog posts, you know I write about…

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The Tale of Inside-Out Land

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Once upon a time there was a world called, “Inside-Out Land.” There, it was impossible for anyone to…

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We Can’t Predict the Future and We Can’t Change the Past

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version and a related video.] We spend so much of our present moment time trying to predict the future….

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What is Anger? And Why Anger Management Doesn’t Work

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s also a related video.] Nobody likes being angry. It feels pretty crappy. The more angry we feel…

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8 Things You Need to Know About Life That Nobody Taught You

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] I lived half a century before I learned how life really works! Even though it took so long,…

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I’ll Be Happy When…

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. This post also has an accompanying video at the end.] Are there situations in your life that appear…

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All The World’s a Stage

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Shakespeare once said, “All the world’s a stage.” While he was talking about the various stages of life…

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Forgiveness in Relationships: How to Forgive Someone

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s a video that relates to forgiveness as well.] I’ve been married for over 34 years. As with…

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Blaming Others for How You’re Feeling

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. See also the corresponding video on this topic.] A couple of months ago I wrote a blog post on how we…

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Nothing is Happening to You

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. See also the corresponding video on this topic.] In a recent blog post I wrote that whatever is going…

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The Misunderstanding of Understanding

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s also a corresponding video you can watch.] We humans are a crazy bunch!  I mean that literally….

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How We Attack Ourselves and Then Blame Others

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. See also the corresponding video on this topic.] I was gifted with a HUGE insight recently. I saw how what…

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Are You Holding Onto Your Story?

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s also a corresponding video to this post.] We all have our stories. Lots of them. But most…

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Looking Back at the Magical Unfolding of Life

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] It’s been nearly four years since I announced to the industry I loved for 17 years (Search Engine…

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Freedom of Choice and Living a Guided Life

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Did you know that you have two minds? If you’re like I was most of my life, you…

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5 Reasons Why Being ‘Up in Arms’ is Dumb

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Have you ever noticed how certain people are always up in arms about something? Whether it’s a situation…

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