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How I Realized That Thoughts Create Feelings

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] A few months ago I finally grasped a concept that I had been grappling with for quite some…

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It’s All Relative – More Proof That We Create Our Own Reality

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Ever notice how the way we feel about pretty much anything depends on what else is going on?…

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Getting Caught Up With One’s Thoughts in Business Situations

Recently, a friend who has a small consulting firm called me for some advice about a business situation. He told me of a client who had signed off on a proposal and was ready to move forward with his services….

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Understanding My Addictive Personality

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Yesterday while pondering the many forms addiction can take, I suddenly had a “life flashing before my eyes”…

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Helping You With Life Problems

A friend of mine was in town recently and told me how she and her brother have been estranged for many years, however, she wanted to try to reunite with him. So she made some kind gestures to him, but he…

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Seeing Our True Self and That of Others Underneath Our Ego Slime

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] When I graduated college way back in the olden days of 1983, I landed a job with Prime…

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Change Who You Think You Are By Changing Your Perceptions

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Most of us carry around a certain image of ourselves. I certainly did and still do, but I…

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Wipe Each Day’s Slate Clean of Judgment

Inevitably when interacting with people, they will say or do things you may not like. Your feelings about the situation are essentially judgments about the people involved. Each judgement you make contributes to the way you think (and therefore feel) about them. For whatever reason, our ego…

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Default Healing, Grandmother Love, Mandalas and More

What I Learned Last Week: Monday, Feb. 17, 2014 It’s amazing to see how our body’s default is to heal. I’ve been watching the daily healing of my cut thumb with awe. (Wish I had been taking daily pics.)

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How to Set Yourself Free of Your Insecurities

If you browse through this blog or watch my YouTube videos, you may notice that a lot of what I talk about is often (usually?) the opposite of what you see elsewhere. In fact, my teachings often go against societal norms…

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Don’t Give it a Second Thought

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. This post also has a corresponding video here.] This week I want to share with you some recent…

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One Truth: We Live in the Feeling of Thought in the Moment

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s also a corresponding video.] If you’ve read any of my blog posts, you know I write about…

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The Tale of Inside-Out Land

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Once upon a time there was a world called, “Inside-Out Land.” There, it was impossible for anyone to…

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What is Anger? And Why Anger Management Doesn’t Work

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. There’s also a related video.] Nobody likes being angry. It feels pretty crappy. The more angry we feel…

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8 Things You Need to Know About Life That Nobody Taught You

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] I lived half a century before I learned how life really works! Even though it took so long,…

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Blaming Others for How You’re Feeling

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. See also the corresponding video on this topic.] A couple of months ago I wrote a blog post on how we…

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How We Attack Ourselves and Then Blame Others

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version. See also the corresponding video on this topic.] I was gifted with a HUGE insight recently. I saw how what…

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5 Reasons Why Being ‘Up in Arms’ is Dumb

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] Have you ever noticed how certain people are always up in arms about something? Whether it’s a situation…

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Do We Need to Control Our Fears?

[Jill’s Note: If you prefer to listen rather than read, please scroll to the bottom of this post for the audio version.] I’ve seen so many articles that tell us we should push past our fears and/or try to control…

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