Posted by Jill Whalen | Posted in Psychology, Relationships, Thought | Posted on 28-12-2016
Tags: 3 Principles, Anxiety, Jealousy
Part of life entails making snap judgments about people and circumstances. As soon as we learn to talk or even just understand language, we start categorizing and labeling everything we encounter.
This labeling, however, leads us to making assumptions–especially about people. As soon as we meet someone new we try to figure out what they’re about and who they remind us of. There’s nothing wrong with doing this, but when we “typecast” others consciously or unconsciously it can cause problems.
I saw this in action recently when an old friend of mine was accused of being a “certain type” by someone who didn’t know her very well.